{"id":64798,"date":"2018-10-17T21:26:10","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T18:26:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.magicpoks.fi\/blogi\/?p=64798"},"modified":"2018-10-17T21:26:10","modified_gmt":"2018-10-17T18:26:10","slug":"irti-paastaminen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magicpoks.fi\/blogi\/2018\/10\/irti-paastaminen\/","title":{"rendered":"Irti p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4minen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Olen kirjoittanut monta tuhatta postausta, enk\u00e4 tied\u00e4 olenko ikin\u00e4 tullut kertoneeksi, kuinka vaikeaa mun on p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4 asioista yli? Irti p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4minen on eritt\u00e4in hieno taito, jota minulla itsell\u00e4ni ei ole &#8211; ihan sama onko kyseess\u00e4 joku pienempi tai isompi asia.<\/p>\n<p>En tarkoita luovuttamista, vaan sit\u00e4 kun joku asia on k\u00e4sitelty loppuun ja se olisi parempi vain siirt\u00e4\u00e4 pois mielest\u00e4. Annan helposti asiat anteeksi, mutta en pysty unohtamaan. Ihan oikeasti toisinaan olisi ihan hyv\u00e4 vaan tosiaankin antaa olla ja unohtaa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1965\/31514792428_c402c3f711_o.jpg\" alt=\"sumu1\" width=\"1300\" height=\"1733\" \/><script async src=\"\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Miten te p\u00e4\u00e4sette yli siit\u00e4 kokonaisvaltaisesta fiiliksest\u00e4, kun joku harmittaa, mutta asialle ei voi tehd\u00e4 kuitenkaan mit\u00e4\u00e4n? Miten menn\u00e4 eteenp\u00e4in? \u00a0Se harmittava asia voi toisinaan olla pieni &#8211; ja joskus v\u00e4h\u00e4n isompi. Omassa el\u00e4m\u00e4ss\u00e4ni ei ole tapahtunut mit\u00e4\u00e4n dramaattisia muutoksia, joista nyt yritt\u00e4isin p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4 yli, mutta kuitenkin usein sit\u00e4 sattuu ja tapahtuu kaikenlaista pienemp\u00e4\u00e4.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1952\/45339188072_e015ac51ef_o.jpg\" alt=\"sumu2\" width=\"1300\" height=\"1733\" \/><script async src=\"\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Mua yli p\u00e4\u00e4semisess\u00e4 auttaa asioista puhuminen, eli jauhaminen l\u00e4heisten kanssa. Liikkuminen. Parasta jos p\u00e4\u00e4see tekem\u00e4\u00e4n jotain, mihin pit\u00e4\u00e4 keskitty\u00e4 100 %. Yleens\u00e4 my\u00f6s y\u00f6n yli nukkuminen helpottaa v\u00e4h\u00e4n<em> &#8211; joskus ei. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eilen olin liev\u00e4sti sanottuna harmissani. Laitoin luurit korville, otin puhelun parhaalle yst\u00e4v\u00e4lleni, k\u00e4velin 12 km lenkin ja kyll\u00e4; kotiin p\u00e4\u00e4stess\u00e4ni olin jo paljon paremmalla tuulella. Asiat kannattaa laittaa perspektiiviin, mutta kun joku juttu oikein harmittaa, niin voi olla tosi vaikeaa sill\u00e4 hetkell\u00e4 muistaa, ett\u00e4 asiat ovat isossa mittakaavassa kuitenkin tosi hyvin.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1938\/31514791038_c8a48e7d13_o.jpg\" alt=\"sumu4\" width=\"1300\" height=\"1733\" \/><script async src=\"\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Kuvat &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/ida365.fi\">Ida Hanhiniemi<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1904\/31514791808_c9e8c97115_o.jpg\" alt=\"sumu3\" width=\"1300\" height=\"1733\" \/><script async src=\"\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>En koe olevani pitk\u00e4vihainen tyyppi, mutta joissain tilanteissa huomaan, ett\u00e4 minun on todella vaikea p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4\u00e4 irti asioista vaikka todella tied\u00e4n sen olevan ainoa vaihtoehto. Miten siell\u00e4, onko kenellek\u00e4\u00e4n samoja tuntemuksia tai samanlaisia ajatuksia?<\/p>\n<p>-Maj<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Olen kirjoittanut monta tuhatta postausta, enk\u00e4 tied\u00e4 olenko ikin\u00e4 tullut kertoneeksi, kuinka vaikeaa mun on p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4 asioista yli? Irti p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4minen on eritt\u00e4in hieno taito, jota minulla itsell\u00e4ni ei ole &#8211; ihan sama onko kyseess\u00e4 joku pienempi tai isompi asia. En tarkoita luovuttamista, vaan sit\u00e4 kun joku asia on k\u00e4sitelty loppuun ja se olisi parempi vain <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.magicpoks.fi\/blogi\/2018\/10\/irti-paastaminen\/#more-64798\" class=\"more-link\">lue lis\u00e4\u00e4<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":64799,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[56,126],"class_list":["post-64798","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-oma-elama","tag-arki","tag-pohdintoja"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Irti p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4minen - Magicpoks<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.magicpoks.fi\/blogi\/2018\/10\/irti-paastaminen\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fi_FI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Irti p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4minen - Magicpoks\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Olen kirjoittanut monta tuhatta postausta, enk\u00e4 tied\u00e4 olenko ikin\u00e4 tullut kertoneeksi, kuinka vaikeaa mun on p\u00e4\u00e4st\u00e4 asioista yli? 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